Recently on the forums, I’ve seen many friends discussing buying property for their children in Spain. My own child just found a small apartment in Madrid, and we needed to help with the down payment. We ended up spending quite a bit of time researching how to send the money safely and hassle-free. I’m sharing the research and experience I’ve gathered here, hoping to help others in the same situation.

A Comparison of Two Main Transfer Methods
From what I’ve found, there are two primary methods: traditional bank wire transfers and modern third-party transfer platforms.
1. Traditional International Bank Wire Transfer
This is the most traditional method and the first one that came to our minds. The advantage is that it feels the safest and most official. After all, it’s a bank-to-bank transaction, and every transfer is well-documented, which is extremely helpful for providing proof of funds when completing the property purchase formalities in Spain. However, the drawbacks are just as significant: the fees are very high! It’s typically a three-stage fee structure: a sending bank fee, an intermediary bank fee, and a receiving bank fee in Spain. All in all, you could easily lose several hundred euros or even more on a single transaction for buying property in Spain. Furthermore, the exchange rates offered by banks are usually not very favorable, leading to another hidden cost.
2. Third-Party Transfer Platforms
There are many such platforms on the market today, like the well-known Wise, Revolut, etc. Their biggest advantages are fast speeds, low fees, and transparent exchange rates. Everything is typically handled through a mobile app, which is very convenient. However, there’s a crucial point to consider: you must confirm whether the transfer records generated by these platforms are accepted by your child’s bank and the public notary (notario) in Spain as valid proof of funds. Spain has very strict anti-money laundering regulations, and the source of every large incoming transfer must be clearly declared. Additionally, these platforms often have single transaction or annual transfer limits. For a large sum like a property payment, you might need to send it in multiple batches, which can be more complicated.
Important Local Considerations in Spain
Regardless of the method you choose, there are a few things you must prepare in advance:
- Your child’s NIE and bank account: This is a prerequisite for receiving the funds. The money must be transferred to the property buyer’s personal bank account in Spain.
- Proof of Funds: Communicate with your child beforehand and have them consult their bank manager to confirm what kind of transfer documentation is required to prove the money is a gift from parents and not from an unknown source.
- Tax Implications: This is a major one! Money from parents to a child is legally considered a gift and is subject to gift tax (Impuesto sobre Sucesiones y Donaciones). The tax rates vary significantly between autonomous communities. For example, in Madrid, gifts between immediate family members receive a 99% tax relief, making it nearly tax-free. However, in other regions, it could be a substantial expense. It’s crucial that your child consults a tax advisor to get clear information on this!
I’ve created a simple table below for a more direct comparison:
| Feature | Traditional Bank Wire Transfer | Third-Party Transfer Platform |
| Speed | Slower | Faster |
| Fees | High | Low |
| Exchange Rate | Poorer | Excellent, close to market rate |
| Proof of Funds | Highest acceptance | Needs prior confirmation with the bank |
| Convenience | Requires visit to a branch or online banking | Convenient, via mobile app |
For small transfers, a third-party platform is undoubtedly the better choice. But for large sums involving hundreds of thousands of euros, like for a property purchase, my advice is safety first. You could consider sending a smaller amount through a third-party platform to cover initial costs like the deposit or things related to your child’s school enrollment in Spain, but use the traditional bank channel for the main funds. Even though it’s a bit more expensive, it ensures everything goes smoothly during the deed signing and notary process. Alternatively, provided you’ve confirmed with the bank that the documentation is valid, sending the funds in batches through a third-party platform could be a good way to balance cost and efficiency. I wish everyone a smooth and successful property-buying journey!