Recently, I was having dinner with a few local Spanish friends, and we inevitably started talking about the age-old challenge of buying a house. We often think of Spaniards as leading a relaxed, carefree life, but when it comes to homeownership, I’ve realized their stress is just as significant as ours, if not more so.
In recent years, housing prices in major Spanish cities have skyrocketed to almost absurd levels, especially in Madrid and Barcelona, where prices in popular areas are simply daunting. My friends complain that while their generation’s salaries have barely increased, property prices have shot up like a rocket. For an average white-collar worker, buying a decent apartment in a big city independently, without help from their parents, is an almost impossible task. Many have no choice but to live in satellite towns far from the city center, spending a significant amount of time commuting every day.

It’s even tougher for young people. Spain’s unemployment rate is already high, and many young adults can only find temporary contracts with unstable incomes, making banks reluctant to approve them for mortgages. This has led to a common social phenomenon: many people in their twenties, and even thirties, still live with their parents. It’s not that they don’t want to be independent; they simply can’t afford to be. It’s a feeling many can probably relate to—why is it so hard to have a small home of your own?
The Stark Contrast Between Housing Prices and Income
I’ve put together a brief comparison to give you a more direct sense of this disparity:
| City | Avg. Price per m² (€) | Avg. Monthly Salary (€) |
| Madrid | Approx. 4,500 | Approx. 1,800 |
| Barcelona | Approx. 4,300 | Approx. 1,750 |
| Valencia | Approx. 2,400 | Approx. 1,500 |
| Seville | Approx. 2,200 | Approx. 1,450 |
So, when it comes to buying a home in Spain, don’t be so quick to envy the relaxed Spanish lifestyle. When faced with the ultimate life goal of ‘owning their own home,’ they are just as filled with hardship and helplessness. Of course, many have come to terms with it, thinking that renting for life is also a good option, free from the shackles of a mortgage. What about the Spanish friends you know? What choices have they made? Feel free to join the discussion below!